The article aims to investigate three aspects of the current adolescent condition both on the phenomenological side and on the side of the consequences of clinical treatment. I mean: (1) The problem of living and being able to process detachment in all the various forms that life and everyday life presents; (2) The question of building a world of relationships and meanings and signifiers in which the real is increasingly easily replaceable with the virtual; (3) The problem of living in a palliative society in which pain, mourning and suffering are dysfunctions to be overcome without the possibility of meaning and meaning.